His arms wrap around their lives,
strong, protective, sure.
He throws them high into the air
beyond even their own expectations.
He listens with his heart
to more than just the words.
Believing in their inner strength
when they feel lost or torn.
He’s really quite the magician,
turning meltdowns to shrieks of laughter.
Letting go of past behaviours
to focus fully on the now.
He teaches by example,
gently guiding, waiting, trusting.
No repeated long winded-lectures,
just nodding, knowing and being.
He holds each moment loosely
so that every dream can grow.
Stepping back and to the side,
yet somehow remaining center.
My children are indeed lucky,
more whole because of him.
And our family’s truly complete
with all the balance that he brings.










What a beautiful Father’s Day gift for Ian. It’s also a poem for the kids to treasure when they are adults.
Thanks, but I feel these words don’t give credit to his wonderful influence in their life. The kids are so lucky to have such a great dad, for which I am most thankful.
Hey Meg — Your tribute to Ian is as complete and perfect as it can be. Truly beautiful! He sounds like an amazing man, which would explain why his writings (like yours) are so warm, wise and genuine.
Happy father’s day to him!
I cannot think of anything more beautiful and absolutely perfect to give to a dad/husband for Father’s Day. He sounds like an amazing soul.
Peace, love and light to you and yours ….
Goosebumps. Thanks, Meg. So nice to “hear” your voice. x
Thank you all – Yes our family is one lucky family that is for sure!